Good morning thread

You know what y’all need? Another baby. That’ll fix everything. ;)

Haha - her ex husband just announced the other day that he unexpectedly got his girlfriend of 2 years pregnant - so my step kids have another sibling on the way thats due in February


I looked at Jess once the kids told us and I said “Let’s have a baby!” and she looked at me like I had 3 fucking heads and said “Absolutely no way am I ever having more kids…. This womb is DONE.”
 
Fuck that guy

....with a Mac 15.

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So it’s now 4 months later…..


Been living at my moms for 90% of the time. Had a couple gatherings at her brothers house and she’s been to my moms once with our boy and she saw my family….

As far as us being friends go, everything has been going just fine and this ‘new’ routine of ours has been life as we know it for more than 3 months now…..

But as I mentioned it’s been 4 months - and she is officially becoming very clingy and very needy when it comes to my presence and my emotional strength…. And when I say needy I mean very whimpery and really beggy about me helping her out with things….

Just 2-3 weeks ago she had all sorts of borders and boundaries still in place and would go on and on stating she doesn’t need to be in a relationship and how tough she is and doesn’t need anybody…..

A week ago she told me that she absolutely can not believe her life is where it is currently and between coming home to the house ‘alone’ with our son and her two kids (two kids are there 50% of the time) and stress at work she’s barely able to keep herself together mentally and avoiding a complete meltdown…..

I myself don’t have any of these issues - I’m having a total blast and to be honest I’ve never been happier…..


It’s looking like reality has set in for her bigtime and it’s also pretty darn safe to say that her reconcile has officially begun…..

It’s me, my mom, my 37ye old brother, and my 94yr old grandmother

I live in the basement - my boy comes there with me every weekend and so does my step son every other weekend - I run around with those two and take them to Charlotte Beach at Lake Ontario and we go to the kids play museum and we go to the heart of downtown Rochester and rent scooters and ride all around the city - my son doesn’t do the scooters, he’s 3…. But my step son and I have a total blast…..

My mother loves having me around, we hang out and drink wine and cook dinner together and I help her with gardening, my mother has always been one of my best friends… she just turned 70 last week. My 94 year old grandmother loves me being there too and she loves the company of the kids on the weekend - grandma just got out of the hospital with pneumonia and a blood infection - she thought she was gonna die and was scared to death…. She told me as much as she’s so sorry I’ve had to go through this situation, she’s also selfishly happy about it because it’s given her and I a lot more time together….

Fuck Biden and fuck voting - I’m just a hardcore family man…..

Haha - her ex husband just announced the other day that he unexpectedly got his girlfriend of 2 years pregnant - so my step kids have another sibling on the way thats due in February


I looked at Jess once the kids told us and I said “Let’s have a baby!” and she looked at me like I had 3 fucking heads and said “Absolutely no way am I ever having more kids…. This womb is DONE.”
Tl;dr
 
Haha - her ex husband just announced the other day that he unexpectedly got his girlfriend of 2 years pregnant - so my step kids have another sibling on the way thats due in February


I looked at Jess once the kids told us and I said “Let’s have a baby!” and she looked at me like I had 3 fucking heads and said “Absolutely no way am I ever having more kids…. This womb is DONE.”
Ifn you had “ 3 fuckin heads “ you could knock up a lot more womins,,,,,,,,
 
We’re definitely not together

I still don’t live in the same house as her and we aren’t having sex regularly (nor have we got it on as of yet) and my mail doesn’t go to the same house she lives in anymore….

But we do get along well and are making decisions together and have a lot of unfinished business to handle when it comes to the house and some bills…

Things are going smooth and going well - I’m happy and the kids are happy and (I think) their mother is happy (or at least happy enough) and that’s all that matters to me….